To you my best friend

when the first time you told me you are following my blog, i guess you might have 1 too...but i didnt ask further, i bet you are privatizing it. after few months, finally i read it.

shocked to read 1 of those where you blog about me. sorry to say i never meant to cause any hard feeling. i was just in blue alright?

been looking both you together for years, never expect such thing happened on both you. who to blame? i am sad to see you being tortured, again and again.

i never suggest on how you should do to him. your feeling and health is always my main concern (also stop stop's).we all care about you. never ever torture yourself.

i have lots to share with you actually, like what we used to do last time. non-stop crapping...

many times i hide myself, mostly because i dont like to talk. and i seldom talk about myself lately.

everyone is busy. study or activities or both. lots incidents happened on me, unexpectedly. causing me to be emo all the time.

again, sorry and you are always my best friend. i am always your listener.

happy,laugh together ; sad, cry together.

nothing

wondering since when i only write about sadness,

i dont feel happy at all?

seems optimistic, think positively.

in fact who the hell i am after all?

never belittle yourself.

have faith.

soul-less

exhausted for few weeks.lack of sleep.i need a break but i am not allowed to do so.

waiting waiting waiting.....few weeks to go.

expo------> study like there's no tomorrow-------->final exam------>SOA paper on the go

someone please motivate me.

kirara

Dreaming of you,do i have to cry for you?

i miss you like crazy,miss you like crazy.

nothing's gonna change my love for you

Kirara

enjoy

PTUM 09-stress.

Actuarial science-left behind.

someone-i miss you like crazy, by Natalie Cole.

adapted and enjoying.

say good luck to me.

finger crossed.

A great lesson-快樂製造機

前幾天到內湖聽一場演講，讓我印象最深刻的是主講者朱平先生，分享如何讓自己做個「快樂製造機」，他談到他每天早晨都會去逛傳統市場，每天都會製造一些快樂給賣菜的老闆們。

比如他買了23元的菜，拿30元給老闆，說「老闆，23元算25元，找我5元就好。」這些老闆們反應大致上有四種反應──

第一種：起初非常驚訝，之後非常開心地找了5元，說謝謝。

第二種：老闆堅持找7元，不佔客戶便宜，但老闆很開心。

第三種：是多送點蔥蒜 ，也很開心。

第四種：是最高竿的反應 ，「不然我幫你湊30元好了，一共是32元，算你30元就好。」


哇，真是高手，原本是要讓老闆佔便宜的，反過來卻讓客戶多買又有佔便宜的感受，更是個「快樂製造機」。



前日傍晚? A我逛傳統黃昏市場時，決定玩一下朱先生的遊戲，暫時改了殺價習慣，想創造點快樂給老闆們。我到一家以前常殺價、討斤兩的攤販前，買了157元的青菜，結帳時，剛好聽到菜販老闆說了一個笑話，非常好笑，我非常愉快地說：「老闆，你好幽默，你的笑話很好笑，157元算160元，這裡是160元，不用找了。」老闆笑了，說：「這怎麼可以，不然妳還需要甚麼，我送妳。」老闆便送我一大塊嫩薑。後來到了另一家買甜不辣29元，拿30元給老闆，我說：「阿伯，29元算30元，不用找了。」老闆有點訝異，一時之間反應不過來，還是找了1元給我，我笑笑地把1元還給他，說不用找，他趕緊又多放了一塊甜不辣給我，從他驚訝轉而高興的表情，我知道我做到了。


回家的路上，我嘴角掛著微笑，哼著歌。睡前在日記裡寫下：「算一算，我多花了4元，賺到了甚麼？

1.賺到了好心情；

2.賺到了老闆的笑容；

3.賺到了老闆的謝意；

4.賺到了老闆的友誼；

5.賺到了一塊嫩薑和一塊甜不辣；

6.賺到了愉快的晚餐。」


當我們決心要當個「快樂製造機」時，就會感染對方，形成一個良性的影響，讓更多週遭的人像我們一樣，成為「快樂製造機」。

下個月發薪水，

你跟老闆講﹕
「三萬八算三萬五就好!!!!」

老板也許會湊足四萬給你 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!